r/therewasanattempt Jul 01 '22 Silver 5 Wholesome 2 Helpful 2

To bring food to his kid

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u/nortonjb82 Jul 01 '22

So she throws the food and drink on the ground just to make sure all the kids starve. Idiot.

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u/PleaseExplainToMeWhy Jul 01 '22

For real that pissed me of so much. Those poor kids, because clearly this bitch isn't the one who is going hungry.

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u/CrazyLID Jul 01 '22

When he started using reasoning and compromises like the kid eating elsewhere if that's the case, the woman instantly lost and just threw the food down. Pathetic

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u/InformalTooth5 Jul 01 '22

Mentions needing food stamps, takes good food, throws it away, and then calls the other person the idiot.

Would still suck for the dad but she could have just taken the food and divided it between her kids. Even if she ate it, then more of the food she had would be available for the kids.

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u/ChieftainQueef Jul 01 '22

She has 4 kids and no husband. And at least two baby daddies. Now, of course shit happens I'm sure there are very fine people in similar situations. That said, it's typically a pretty good indicator that decision making isn't her strong suit.

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u/nortonjb82 Jul 01 '22

And the "I'm waiting on my food stamps to feed them" ain't flying. Where is the food stamps you could have budgeted and bought those kids a month of food instead of doing who knows what with it while the kids starve and she throws McDonald's. Good looking out for those children.

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u/ManOrReddit-man Jul 01 '22

Those kids are fucked. Feel real bad for them.

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u/MagNolYa-Ralf Jul 01 '22

His son needs to escape

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u/joek7891 Jul 01 '22

That kid needs to live with his father

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u/dLimit1763 Jul 01 '22 Brighten My Day

He does now. His Father got full custody and his child lives with him now. How fucking great is that! It's like this little kid is going to live with his loving Father and not be used as another pawn by the Mother.

 Maybe someone can find and link the story I can't at the moment. I got an upvote for you waiting

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u/benjers27 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

https://www.yourtango.com/news/woman-video-blasting-ex-bringing-food-his-child-not-her-other-kids?amp=

Edit: apparently in this article it doesn't say he has custody. I cannot find one that does.

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u/Frishdawgzz Jul 01 '22

This doesn't state he received custody at all?

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u/gothangelblood Jul 01 '22

Because he doesn't.

most recent update

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u/gotnoaero Jul 01 '22

That just makes her look worse

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u/raphanum Jul 01 '22

Is that what they call an article these days?

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u/MrDude_1 Jul 01 '22

Do you have a link to any evidence of this?

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u/InformalCriticism Jul 01 '22

Too bad family courts are sexist as hell.

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u/MonsterNog Jul 01 '22

And there are so many families like this it takes forever and costs a ton to even argue about McDonald’s in front of a judge

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u/dat_fox01 Jul 01 '22

And this is why I'll always fight anyone that says the mother should always have the kids in a divorce, most of them don't deserve the kid anyway, they don't actually care for them, they just want their baby daddy's money.

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u/tommygun2009 Jul 01 '22

Take me for example, my parents split up and my mam got me, but she was abusive as fuck. She never did anything for my siblings she always just sent me out to the shop and make some microwavable pizzas while she just sat in her room, either sleeping, smoking, or watching eastenders on my school supplied laptop.

Worst part is she somehow convinced me that my dad was the evil one in the situation, so I just suffered for ages until I actually stood up.

For the past year and a half now I've been living with my dad and it's been much better, my siblings didn't come with me, as they aren't my dad's kids but I'm much happier at my dad's house.

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u/ITEACHSPECIALED Jul 01 '22

Right here with you.

My mother was all kinds of fucked up.

She was diagnosed with a plethora of mental health disorders including but not limited to schizophrenia and bipolar disorder.

She was also on disability because she got fucked up by inmates at the prison she worked at.

Somehow, she got custody over my father who was fully employed, making six figures, no health issues, and was an overall awesome person.

This caused so much havoc for my siblings and I that we still deal with twenty years later. It took my father almost TEN years to prove that she was unfit and by that time I was old enough to choose for myself.

In my situation, the court preferred to send us to foster care as opposed to just allowing us to live with our father. Made no fucking sense.

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u/yourlmagination Jul 01 '22

And here, I (as a male) had to take my ex-wife to court 4 times (not counting the divorce hearing) to get custody of my children. Why did it take at least 4 times to prove she was unfit to care for them?

because she's the mother and states usually side with the female

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u/Prineak Jul 01 '22

My friends ex wife had a mental breakdown after she gave birth and left their baby on the side of the road and called him to come pick her up.

The courts would not give him sole custody.

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u/djcarbine Jul 01 '22

My wife did something like this but not as bad, had a mental break and just left me and the kid. Still waiting for her to come back, she just told me she's going on a vacation to LA. Responsibilities yay!

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u/PanchoPanoch Jul 01 '22

Bro that ain’t your wife anymore. If a woman dips out and then goes in “vacation” to LA…she’s lost man

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u/NeedingNew Jul 01 '22

I feel ya. Mine left to "Live her best life." Fuck her, I was already a single parent anyway. Now I am just stuck raising one kid. Being a father isn't a job or a hindrance for me. I just sit back watching her life circle the drain. Well me and my son's life just gets better and better.

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u/Agreeable-Annual-641 Jul 01 '22

That sucks man, i hope things get better for you

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u/OppositeYouth Jul 01 '22

She's guna come back and he's guna have 2 kids!

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u/Cant_see_mt_tai Jul 01 '22

What the Holy fuck??? What country is this?

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u/quithittingme Jul 01 '22

was going thru a divorce. child protective services got involved because of my ex's multiple arrest for meth. all thru the process, their mantra was "it is our goal to re-unite the children with the mother." it's getting a little better but still favors the mother. eventually got them but damn.

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u/AsaCoco_Alumni Jul 01 '22 Helpful

It is our goal to re-unite the children with the meth.

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u/quithittingme Jul 01 '22

unfortunately now it be re-uniting them with heroin. feel bad for her but at least my kids ended up fairly well-adjusted adults.

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u/burtoncummings Jul 01 '22

Good on you, Dad. Way to get them out of that shitty situation

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u/Bgal31089 Jul 01 '22 Silver

I went to court almost a year and a half ago to get an emergency custody order of my one and ahalf year old son. I told the judge my son’s mother was hallucinating and that this was a serious health problem. The judge interrupted me four times to tell me I look like crap. And then she asked me if I talked to my sons pediatrician about this. She promptly ended the hearing and informed Dcf that I admitted to needing help with my own mental health. Then she ordered my son‘s mother to not allow me near my own child unsupervised. After six months of Dcf trying to convince me they understand our living arrangements just are not ideal while they tried to convince my son’s mother to just get a restraining order on me and to take her and my son with her to a women’s shelter, I was finally able to get her to agree to go to the hospital and get her diagnosed schizophrenic on my own. A year later I’m still on probation for this. Dcf is still trying to force her to go work with HAWC. Fuck family court judges. Fuck DCF. The only good thing that has come from their involvement, truly their interference, is now I know how and why things went so horribly wrong in my own childhood.

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u/FRIKI-DIKI-TIKI Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

They are the devil, we had some friends stay with us once as the husband was an old old friend, he had gotten on drugs and said he wanted to clean up and wanted my help. He did not and we had to kick them out, the wife who is satans bride made a false report on us, as well as another friend who let them stay. DCF barges into my house at 11 PM and pretty much just starts asking questions about my daughter and questioning my daughter.

I call the old friends brother who is my best friend and tell him what is going on and tell him I think the wife called in a false report. He says I know she did because I just got the same call from our other buddy that they stayed with.

He and their mother call DCF and tell them everything, they know both case workers names and give them both the contact info for both case workers. This is clearly a case of someone abusing the legal system for revenge.

Anyways my case worker shows up, and I say point blank so it is established that this is a false report, I am assuming you are here to close the case and that bitch looked at me and said, well we at DCF have some concerns and we would like you to attend substance abuse concealing. I was like for what, and she say well I have it listed here that you take xanex, and I am like yeah and the reason you know that is I showed you my fucking prescription for it, she says I don't recall seeing a prescription. Now I know what is going on, and then she mentions a bottle of scotch I have on the cabinet and I was like lady that bottle was there 11 days ago when you where here. If I had a drinking problem that bottle would be gone.

Now I have had it, and I look at her and I say, we are going to have one last conversation. I ask her are you going to prosecute the person that made the false report. She ho's and hums and then says we don't like to do that because it will discourage reporting. I said well then that puts you in a pickle because you are going to note on my file that this was a false report, that you found no evidence and you are going to redact any of the substance abuse bullshit you where trying to build up in that file, and you will provide a certified copy for me to review. If you do not, my next call will be to a lawyer and I will be employing him not only to fight my case but also to expose and force DCF to prosecute the reporter who broke the law. I will go after her, by forcing you guys to go after her.

I said do you understand, she closed her book said yes sir and left. My wife went into labor a few days later with our son, and the hospital said that we may not be able to take him home due to an ongoing DCF investigation. I call the agent right away and I said we are now treading very thin ice, she says she is finalizing the redactions and will have it closed in 2 days but that she will personally call the director of the hospital, which she did.

That agency should be disbanded, they tried to railroad innocent people who tried to help other people out and admittedly wont go after the person using their powers to abuse other people. Fuck DCF.

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u/CaLLmeRaaandy Jul 01 '22

So true. From when my parents divorced when I was 8 until I was old enough to legally choose where I wanted to go, my mom had custody of me. Living off of disability checks that didn't nearly cover everything, prescription drug problem, other mental health issues, abusive, had me surrounded by family who were alcoholics and drug addicts, I could go on. My dad had a great job, made good money, fully owned a 3 bedroom house, treated me like a prince, did anything he possibly could to keep me happy and healthy, didn't even drink beer because he hated what drugs and alcohol did to people.

Why is this still a thing?

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u/linksawakening82 Jul 01 '22

I had to jump through hoops for formula vouchers, as the moron who worked the desk at the Memphis WIC office told me I was ineligible, as it was for “women,infants , and children” . I guess she thought the 6mo old i was carrying wouldn’t be getting said formula. She acted so bitter when I came back with my custody paperwork. There had to have been no less than 50 girls/women between 12-25 that I sat and watched come in for the same thing. No paperwork necessary.

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u/disgusted_orangutan Jul 01 '22

As horrible as that whole video is, the way he says “the child that’s mine, silly.” hits me in the funny bone.

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u/angstyart Jul 01 '22

My dad said it the exact same way when he was exasperated with me as a kid I’m laughing so hard.

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u/RepentThySins Jul 01 '22

Ya I was impressed with his restraint, only using the innocent word 'silly' instead of something stronger

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u/spetzie55 Jul 01 '22

How can someone be so dense that they record this thinking they are in the right. I mean she literally just showed the world how ignorant she really is and did so on her on accord. Just wow.

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u/queentropical Jul 01 '22

She’s only double downed since then. Stupid AF.

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u/Prestigious-Plum-139 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 02 '22

She is totally stupid AF…Agreed……buuuuut if, and only if, they were both even somewhat intelligent….. bcuz it does take 2 to tango…. They could have arranged a time that this guy could pick up his particular kid & go to McD’s….but that would take minimal intelligence, so….ya….don’t know how these two could figure this out to prevent a scrap like this 🤷🏽‍♂️

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u/Chiang2000 Jul 01 '22

In her reply video she has her hair, nails, brows all done fresh. This is just power tripping.

She can't manipulate what she wants out of him with her "charms" anymore so now she is going to ransom one kid to hunger and tantrums to feed them all.

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u/deadfermata Jul 01 '22

She took that drink and burger and was like...

Happy birthday to the GROUND!!

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u/angstyart Jul 01 '22

YOU MUST THINK IM A JOKE

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u/LolaLulz Jul 01 '22

My dad's not a phone. Duh!!!

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u/jasoncee12 Jul 01 '22

I ain’t gonna be part of the system, man!

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u/C41n5 Jul 01 '22

"welcome to the real world jackass!"

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u/SnooDoggos5163 Jul 01 '22

Man, this ain’t my dad, this is a CELLPHONE!!

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u/awildgostappears Jul 01 '22

I'M AN ADULT!

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u/NioneAlmie Jul 01 '22

I love all of you that are quoting this song

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u/Mr_Oujamaflip Jul 01 '22

I threw the rest of the cake too!

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u/No_Drag3975 Jul 01 '22

I THREW THE REST OF THE FOOD TOO! WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD JACKASS!!!

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u/Bare425 Jul 01 '22

That's not my dad it's a phone

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u/mrzurkonandfriends Jul 01 '22

I feel so bad for this dude he legit seems like he's trying to take care of his kid and be in his life

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u/mxler Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22 Snek

This is why, even though my marriage isn't a perfect fairy tale marriage (whose marriage is though?), you couldn't drag me away from my family with a frickin' semi. I will never stop trying to work on my marriage and keep my family together, because I refuse to be a weekend dad. My own parents divorced when I was like 4, and yeah, that's a long story, but the bottom line is fuck everything about that.

Edit: A lot of people are reading into what I said stuff that just isn't there. My marriage is actually doing pretty darn good right now. My only point was that I am committed to doing what it takes to keep it this way, because I love my kids and I really don't want to be apart from them. Literally all I said about the state of my marriage is that it's not a perfect fairy tale marriage, but apparently on Reddit that means my marriage is on the rocks and I'm trying desperately to keep it together. My marriage is not your marriage, or your parents' marriage, so stop projecting your situations onto what I said. And stop trying to infer from three short sentences, none of which mention any trouble in my marriage, that somehow my marriage is on the rocks. Also, this was not a blanket comment that staying together for the kids' sake is the right thing to do in all situations.

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u/Niechea Jul 01 '22 Wholesome

I'm guessing a semi in the USA is some sort of vehicle. In the UK it means half a boner.

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u/CountessDeLessoops Jul 01 '22

In the US, it means both.

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u/_justpassingby_ Jul 01 '22

And always both- never one or the other.

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u/TommyTornstus Jul 01 '22 Silver

Dang this would be great evidence in a custody trial

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u/AnnihilationOrchid Jul 01 '22

The "funniest" part is that she's complaining to the only father that actually comes to be with his kid. When he asks where are the fathers of those other three kids, she kinda froze for a minute.

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u/SmoothFox3020 Jul 01 '22

This is probably why the other ones avoid that house like the plague

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u/ApparentlyIronic Jul 01 '22

Right? The man is clearly trying to be a good father and it's almost like she's trying to drive him out of their kid's life. Like you really don't want your child to have a father around?

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u/Tallywhacker73 Jul 01 '22

Well, we don't know shit about the guy, if he's paying child support, if he's trying to help raise the kid. We just know she's a piece of shit.

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u/ProjectProxy Jul 01 '22

Credit though to him for taking the time to show up and spend his own time on this. (On HER request, which she did just to gaslight and video record him)

I'm poor but I consider my time to be more valuable than "money". He could literally just walk out of this kid's life entirely and just send some checks in the mail.

Pretty sure the kid would value "hey my dad showed up with food occasionally for me when I needed it" compared to "I never met him but he sent my mum the government ordered child support money I guess"

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u/lostsoulranger Jul 01 '22

Kid will be told nothing of the child support.

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u/locustzed Jul 01 '22

No. If the woman is as big of a piece of shit as my father was she will tell her kid constantly that their other parent isn't paying child support even if the parent is.

My dad claimed for years that mom didn't care about us enough to send child support or gifts. Found out after mom died she had been paying child support at least for the last couple of years, didn't have the full documents, and had sent us presents which dad would claim he did.

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u/AliceInHololand Jul 01 '22

He’s coming around to bring food to his kid and spend time with him. Dead beat dads don’t go out of their way to spend time with their kids when they don’t have to.

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u/dLimit1763 Jul 01 '22

That house has a revolving door where guys come to blast then take off

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u/Guardian5985 Jul 01 '22

Kum & Go (gas station).

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u/dLimit1763 Jul 01 '22

Pump & Dump

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u/BmWsUpRa Jul 01 '22

Unload and hit the road

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u/TheREexpert44 Jul 01 '22

Bust some skeet and hit that yeet

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u/Quirky-Resource-1120 Jul 01 '22

She's going to end up with him being gone too, and not realizing it's her fault. Poor kids.

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u/ADelightfulCunt Jul 01 '22

Lol she won't realize she'll just say men are pigs and talk shit. She so absent minded

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u/awildgostappears Jul 01 '22

I actually ran into this for a bit with my ex. The main difference is our child is her first kid. My child support was getting pretty ridiculous and I asked one magistrate to just give me custody of my child. He was like, "which one? What about the others?"

That's when I realized she had been trying to claim that they were all mine because I was the only one of 3 dads that was paying anything. I told the magistrate that it might sound cold, but the other kids were not my problem. It is supposed to be child support, not family support. If it wasn't enough, I shouldn't be punished because my ex decided to go out and have more kids. Eventually I gained custody and I told my ex that hopefully it would help alleviate some of the stress and she could focus on taking care of herself and her situation. Then we could talk about her getting custody again once she had everything settled. Two years ago we worked out an agreement since now my ex is doing better. I just wanted the best for my child and by proxy my ex, but at the time she was all over the place. Even trying to hold seeing my daughter as ransom for extra money.

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u/ToadTod Jul 01 '22

Thanks for sharing your story. You sound like a great dad, and I love that you also wanted your ex to do well (so that your daughter could have a decent mother).

I was wondering how the whole thing affected the dynamics between your daughter and her siblings (if this is too personal, you obviously don't have to answer). For me, when growing up, my siblings were more important to me than my parents. So, being broken apart from them would have been horrible. But I guess different children are different. And of course, there wasn't really a good solution in your case. So, I am really not trying to be judgmental or anything. I'm just curious.

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u/awildgostappears Jul 01 '22

I'm a decent dad at best. I just hope in the future my daughter understands that the bad parts of what she has experienced were not what I wanted for her. She definitely didn't like being away from her siblings and I feel like she has been happier around them. I had argued with my ex for a while about taking custody so that she could get back on her feet, but for a long time she thought it was a threat to take her child. In the end it worked out for a bit, and I hope in the end it was for the better. Unfortunately there is a much larger story to it, and it shows that I am by no means the best person, but I have tried and want the best for my daughter. I know being away from her siblings was not easy and it took a toll. That was a big part of why in the end we decided it would be best for her to stay with her mom again. I hope that in your case things worked out, it is rough being separated from siblings, I went through it as a kid and ended up losing contact with 2 of my half siblings and to this day still can't find them. Hopefully they are alright.

It can be rough to be separated from family, which is why when I had custody I made sure that if any of my ex's family wanted to see her, they had the chance. My ex's sister, who hated me after our split even came around after a bit since she lived about 3 hours from me. I made sure that any chance she got she could see her niece. Hell, my ex's father, who was a gigantic piece of shit, had a bond with my daughter and when he died I really wanted to be like, "fuck him... good," but my daughter asked to go to his funeral and her family wanted her there, so I paid for her to fly and stay with family because it wasn't about me. I hope that in the end I've at least done right by her.

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u/etthat Jul 01 '22

In a "conversation" with my kids mother, pointing out that I am the only one with a relationship with my kid, out of her several baby daddys, she told me, "just because you aren't as big a peice of shit, doesn't mean you aren't a peice of shit!"

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u/angstyart Jul 01 '22

😐 There’s no winning 😐

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u/amretardmonke Jul 01 '22

What does that make her then?

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u/AdultishRaktajino Jul 01 '22

A piece of shit fucker?

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u/Bnorm71 Jul 01 '22

Full of shit

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u/Bay_Med Jul 01 '22

It reminds me of “Don’t be a menace to south central” where ashtray asks out daishiki and adds “oh you and your seven kids” this lady is hilarious for blaming this man

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u/citiesandcolours Jul 01 '22

Wrong hole foo

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u/Why_Did_Bodie_Die Jul 01 '22

"You man enough to cum up in me but ain't man enough to take care of what comes out of me?"

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u/Galakordi_Urtis_Krat Jul 01 '22

Fucking incredible

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u/Edwax Jul 01 '22

I would pay to see this video presented in court.

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u/senorglory Jul 01 '22

Imagine being the judge. Lady… did you really just show me that video to “expose” him?!

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u/Panda6036 Jul 01 '22

“Lady, you just exposed yourself”

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u/pippi_longstocking09 Jul 01 '22

He totally should file a petition for custody. It's not that hard and his kid deserves it. The kid is doomed if he stays w mom.

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u/FemNate Jul 01 '22

True, and I could totally see that shit excuse for a mother being vindictive and taking it out on their child.

Shame more guys like this don’t believe they can win or don’t attempt full-custody battles.

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u/FluffySquirrell Jul 01 '22

I mean we literally HAVE seen her being vindictive and taking it out on the child. She just threw the childs food on the ground

That was not her shit to throw away

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u/All_Thread Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

LOL not that hard, damn near impossible in my state for a father to get custody.

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u/janesearljones Jul 01 '22

At least 1 of her kids has a dad trying to be in his life and she pulls this shit. Those poor kids don’t stand a chance.

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u/BreakingThoseCankles Jul 01 '22

"where are they daddies at!?".... Crickets... Oh she fucking knew

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u/janesearljones Jul 01 '22 Wholesome

They might be at Burger King or Wendy’s

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u/saucy-Mama Jul 01 '22

This is the type of mom to tell the kid “your daddy dont wanna be in your life he dont do shit for us, he ran out on us to go fuck around with the neighborhood girls”

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u/Ok-Onion-3654 Jul 01 '22 Silver

File for custody my dude

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u/deadfermata Jul 01 '22 Gold

Get all those kids out of her care. She is not fit to be a mother.

If she has more kids does she expect him to bring a whole catering service?

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u/Lukaroast Jul 01 '22

Yes she does. There are so many people like her. Where they get this endless sense of entitlement utterly baffles me

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u/Consistent-Chicken94 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Kind of a related story. My coworker has 50/50 split custody of his kids. His ex is on disability, so he’s stuck paying full child support. He packs a lunch for them to take to school during the week, even on the week days he drops them off with her 2 hours before school. Currently summer holidays, and today she was reaming him out over text for not packing them a lunch to take to her house, while she was home with them.

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u/tehbilly Jul 01 '22

People fucking disgust me. This is why I'm so very thankful I have a good coparenting relationship with my daughter's mother.

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u/appealinglemons Jul 01 '22

This thread has made me lose hope in humanity. The amount of people defending her behavior is unreal

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u/SchwettyBawls Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Spoiler: at the end she agrees to take the food to the kid and then immediately throws it all of the ground and in the roadway.

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u/FluffySquirrell Jul 01 '22

Nah, don't put her on judge judy. Both sides get paid on that show

I want a normal judge, and for her to get fucking NOTHING

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u/lostsoulranger Jul 01 '22

Well I kinda want her to get a job.

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u/StuJayBee Jul 01 '22

As shown in the video. Her smashing the kid’s food on the ground instead of feeding him with it.

Denying food. Deliberate starvation.

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u/Lucifer1177 Jul 01 '22

CPS should get involved. The mother can't afford to feed all her kids, and when the father of one of those kids wants to help feed his child, she throws the food away. I took a peak at this woman's tik tok, and she can clearly afford makeup and fake nails. When you're a parent, your spending priority should be on your kids, not making yourself look less ugly.

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u/securitysix Jul 01 '22

not making yourself look less ugly.

If this is really her attitude, there's no amount of paint she can apply to herself to look less ugly.

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u/Phantom_Pain_Sux Jul 01 '22

That's how you pull the next baby daddy

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u/carnivorous-Vagina Jul 01 '22

Then he's gotta buy everyone McDonald's and this guys off the hook

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u/Ajdee6 Jul 01 '22

Can be Barbie on the outside. She is still a piece of shit on the inside

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '22

She's just going for hoodrat-fuckable

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u/Dada2fish Jul 01 '22

Whenever I hear a woman complain how broke she is or how busy she is, I take a look at her nails. She’s full of shite if she’s got a professional mani.

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u/romeripley Jul 01 '22

Agreed! My friend owed me thousands of dollars (yeah, my bad) and she’d always have a full set of nails and platinum blonde hair. When I brought it up it was “how dare you”

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u/ledgeitpro Jul 01 '22

Doesnt sound much like a friend

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u/romeripley Jul 01 '22

Yeah, we’re not friends now! Haven’t spoken in years.

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u/angstyart Jul 01 '22

Did you take her to small claims court?

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u/Aurorafaery Jul 01 '22

I’m definitely one that EVERYONE has their own version of “no money”, and certainly has their own version of “the essentials”. Some wouldn’t pay for nails & hair, but pay for the gym and protein powder; some think the gym is a luxury, but are happy to pay for 20 cigarettes a day…however, if you can’t afford to feed your own child, NOTHING else should come before that.

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u/Terrible-Pattern-124 Jul 01 '22

She sparks me as one that prob sells her stamps. Especially if she has makeup and fake nails all the time

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u/DLoungeReddit Jul 01 '22

Team daddy. He needs to get his kid out of there.

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u/Ben-A-Flick Jul 01 '22 Ally

Like the courts would do that! My friend worked in child services and she quit because they always left the kids with the mother no matter how bad things were. The case that got to her was whew the mom was clearly an addict and she went to do the check up and all that was there was the bare minimum items to pass when the dad has a stable job, was paying his bills and could give them a much better living situation. She called me crying saying she had to pass her even though the little food that was the was probably stolen or borrowed to pass the visit.

She quit soon after that incident.

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u/moseph999 Jul 01 '22

I work with the children of parents like that. To say those situations will fuck a child up is beyond an understatement. Those kids probably hoard food any chance they get because they know mom is incapable. Or even worse, they don’t know mom is incapable and just think that’s how life is supposed to be. In my position, I’m never allowed to speak to parents but cases like that make me want to cry and beat the shit out of them for the damage they’ve done to their own children. I know that’s not a professional way to think but I just chalk it up to me being human and recognizing that the system will fail these kids. Now that I think of it that’s probably why my coworkers and I aren’t allowed to speak to parents…

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u/Ben-A-Flick Jul 01 '22

I don't think for 1 second any of us wouldn't have those thoughts! You are a good person to keep on trying to help. I can't imagine the strength it takes to keep on doing what you do!

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u/Sharkflin Jul 01 '22

If it gives you or your friend any hope, my partner and I just won a year and a half long custody battle after his ex lied and took his son from us, just didn't give him back to us Christmas day after having very little to do with him til that point. It took a long time, and parents with deep pockets on his side for decent lawyers, but we played the long game and won. We have him 12 days of 14 and she has supervised visits now (a lot came out about her behaviour and lifestyle during the procees).

I am not in USA though, so that may be a factor if that's where you are.

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u/appswithasideofbooty Jul 01 '22

That honestly gives me less hope, as I do live in the US and don’t have family with deep pockets.

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u/trollfysics Jul 01 '22

"If it gives your friend any hope, this bitch literally stole the kid and we still had to borrow money from rich people to get him back and it took a year and a half."

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u/DLoungeReddit Jul 01 '22

That’s heartbreaking.

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u/Practical-Jelly-5320 Jul 01 '22

I hope the kids didn't hear this argument

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u/dbtheguitarman Jul 01 '22 Wholesome

I kinda hope at least his kid it. At least he’d know his dad is making an effort. I’d bet money that this woman makes no mention to that kid that the guy even came by.

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u/-0-O- Jul 01 '22

I’d bet money that this woman makes no mention to that kid that the guy even came by.

No, she'll probably say that he didn't bring enough food, and or that he ate it himself. She's emotionally abusive and she'll definitely use this to make the kid think the dad did something wrong.

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u/DarkseidHS Jul 01 '22

Being the other kids in that situation sucks and I feel for them. Having the parent that doesn't show up and you get jealous of the kids who's parents do.

Shit sucks.

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u/FranDankly Jul 01 '22

This is the worst part for me. Going hungry watching your sibling eat a special meal his dad brought would be devastating.

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u/kjzavala Jul 01 '22

True. Which is why this crazy ass mom should have let him sit with his dad and eat his meal.

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u/cartonbox Jul 01 '22

That might strengthen the bond her child has with their dad, and she won't stand for that. It's sad that she has that mentality and cares more for herself than her kids' welfare.

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u/AggressiveBait Jul 01 '22

It would create a lot of bitterness among the siblings.

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u/jtd1437 Jul 01 '22

That breaks my heart for the dad and the children.

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u/Thetallerestpaul Jul 01 '22

Is she filming this, cos she thinks she is in the right here? So sad for all the kids, you're right.

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u/Accomplished-Sky1723 Jul 01 '22

Yeah, clearly that’s why she also posted it. Spending money on those gross ass nails and can’t even afford a meal for her four children.

Financial literacy in urban America is pitifully bad. Living in Baltimore, a city that graduates kids who literally can’t read, this unfortunately affects way more children than people realize.

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u/WingsOfTheAnomaly Jul 01 '22

It blows my mind that she thinks she's in the right here. Dude has no responsibility to the other kids.

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u/LimpTeacher0 Jul 01 '22

You cant reason with crazy. Had to learn the hard way.

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u/plan_with_stan Jul 01 '22

Don’t stick your dick in crazy!

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u/ErikkShone Jul 01 '22

My dumb ass buddy, love him to death, had his baby momma facebook live or whatever her revealing to him she was pregnant (not married, dating). I can't get over the fact that she ambushed him about this and he's gotta put on a strong face about being excited at the time. Knowing him, I saw his future flash before his eyes and all the anxiety involved with it. The Army is a bad place to have kids, lemme tell you.

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u/XO8441 Jul 01 '22

Please be fake. Please be fake. Please be fake.

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u/freifickmuschimann Jul 01 '22

Sadly, it is not fake

She even did a whole video trying to justify her actions

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u/Hevysett Jul 01 '22

Sauce

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u/SkrodLaDa Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Sauce. Its a link to her video on her facebook page. Where she also links her Instagram and shows she makes fake baby mama vs. baby daddy skits.

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u/dsiurek2019 Jul 01 '22

When you got fresh-out-of-the-salon hair like that and some foot long eyelashes no shit you can’t feed your kids dummy

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u/KPZ605 Jul 01 '22

What’s wrong with her face. I can’t point to it but there’s something that rubs me the wrong way about her face lol

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u/Ansoni Jul 01 '22

She uses makeup and fake lashes to superficially change the angle and shape of her eyes. It's not convincing so it results in uncanny valley.

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u/nottobesilly Jul 01 '22

She has a TON of makeup on that is very thick. She put on some bad contouring around her eyes that doesn’t match and she has a “botox droop” that is really evident when she raises her eyebrows and the middle of her forehead does not move or wrinkle but the very top of her forehead does. Her fake as hell eyelashes are also overdone and on crooked.

This woman has easily $300 worth of nails, makeup and salon styling going on, and botox is spendy as fuck.

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u/EducationalCow3549 Jul 01 '22

It's fucked that we have to ask that question with every video these days!

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u/Several_Emphasis_434 Jul 01 '22

I understand about the other kid’s however he is not responsible for her other children. It’s a shitty situation.

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u/Background_News_9878 Jul 01 '22

Yeah, same. I watched her other video and I get why it’s rough on her other kids—if they knew him and liked him, they might feel abandoned(even if that isn’t fair to him). BUT, her handling of the situation is so bad, too. She should have just sent his kid out to eat it in the car with his dad to defuse the situation. You can set a boundary without behaving like this.

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u/Far_Drink_8168 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

She let her kid go hungry when she didn't have to in order to satisfy her anger. Basically fuck her, I really hope that kid got to eat something else that day.

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u/KitKats-or-Death Jul 01 '22

If she isn’t in a relationship with him the it isn’t his responsibility to take care of any child but his own. What a wreck.

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u/Rigo3oh Jul 01 '22

Right! Plus her video trying to justify her actions makes it sounds even more idiotic. Also why did she throw the food on the street? That’s just insane. If you’re that poor. Cut the burger in 4 pieces, and share everything els. But this lady is just out of her mind.

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u/CaliJim69 Jul 01 '22

A woman can give birth but that doesn’t means she’s a mother

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u/SavageCriminal Jul 01 '22

Learned this with my own biological mother. Very true. My step mother has been more of a mom to me than that stranger will ever be.

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u/BushwickNights Jul 01 '22

And to think Roe v Wade was overturned.

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u/DLoungeReddit Jul 01 '22

Keep your d!ck out of low quality trash. I feel sorry for this man trying to do right for his son.

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u/yrevapop Jul 01 '22

Condoms, fellas. Please.

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u/securitysix Jul 01 '22

And respect the expiration dates on them.

Don't treat them like that can of tuna that's been at the back of the pantry forever or the milk that still smells OK.

If your condoms are expired, pitch them and get new ones.

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u/NoxKyoki Jul 01 '22

I made it halfway through that. my god she's annoying.

yeah, ok, maybe when they were dating. but they're not dating anymore! hopefully he was the one that dumped her ass. now that they're in this situation, he absolutely does not owe them anything. he's helping with his son (or at least trying to) because that's who he has a responsibility to. he's not responsible for the rest. he never really was.

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u/AshFraxinusEps Jul 01 '22

If they aren't together anymore, then 100% he has no reason to pay for another couple's children (unless they dated for a number of years, which I doubt)

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u/whiteholewhite Jul 01 '22

Wtf is wrong with her eyes. God damn

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u/Midnight_Moon29 Jul 01 '22

What a shitty person. Those poor kids and that poor man. The only one who is trying to do the right thing, and that's how she treats him.

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u/Jedi_Mindtrix53 Jul 01 '22

Fuck them other kids - Ronald McDonald probably

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u/MewsikMaker Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Is he required to pay for some other dudes kids?

I feel like she’s fucking up. Am I missing something?

Edit-I couldn’t watch the whole thing. Too hard to see. This man was trying to see his son. I get it now.

(Single income no kids forever.)

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u/ClockworkSalmon Jul 01 '22

This is such a sad, shitty situation

The guy is obviously in the right, he wants to treat his kid, and isn't obligated to feed other people's kids.

But I totally get the woman's point of view, the other kids would get jealous and/or sad, and this could turn into a whole thing.

Best solution would be letting the kid go out with the dad to mcdonalds, so at least he's not eating a tasty burger right in front of his siblings, but I'm guessing it was her time to be with the kid and she's selfishly holding onto the kid.

This kind of broken home just fucking sucks overall, I hope the kids turn out alright. Use protection, guys.

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u/ericsaoleopoldo Jul 01 '22

What a trashy cun’t. She can afford fake nails but can’t afford to feed all her children. How about you pick up the trash in front of your house too. Lazy entitled skank, clearly.

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u/UnNonStop Jul 01 '22

what a bitch, dude actually sticks around and still gets crap no wonder all the other fathers left

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u/dys_p0tch Jul 01 '22

he put his dick in crazy

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u/_cookie_Dough Jul 01 '22

Best condom ad.

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u/One-Possibility1178 Jul 01 '22

She is so below common. She actually trying to rationalize how this man is responsible for the problems she is creating. No girl he is not responsible for all of your kids no matter how many times you let him hit it after y’all broke up. 🙄 she is probably telling her kids this nonsense to and blaming him for them going without. With the way she thinks the next man tags in to take care of however many children she has when they start relations and he’s on the hook until the next potential baby daddy comes along.

She has the nerve to be upset because she getting dragged on social media. She turned comments off because she was getting cussed out.

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u/Nerdlurld Jul 01 '22

What a bum ass bitch

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u/ChefNemo93 Jul 01 '22

“I brought food for MY kid.” Call your other baby dads to bring food for THIER kid. See if they show up to do the same. Explain that their sibling has a caring father. Man was trying to be a good dad to HIS KID but you’re too stubborn to let him do that.

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u/Salami__Tsunami Jul 01 '22

Anybody have a follow up on this? I’d love to know how the next custody hearing goes.

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u/Drillur Jul 01 '22

This is the future pro-lifers want.

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u/TheTrueXato Jul 01 '22

"Imma expose you!"
Only thing exposed is yet another multiple baby momma acting like a ratchet.

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u/HorribleRnG Jul 01 '22

Women like her are absolutely DISGUSTING

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u/Whooptidooh Jul 01 '22

He did bring food to his kid. It's not his responsibility to also provide for all of these other kids that his ex had with several different men.

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u/Streakshooter31 Jul 01 '22

He needs to take custody of his son.