r/PublicFreakout Jul 01 '22 Silver 1

Girl wants her Ex boyfriend back and has a complete mental breakdown Loose Fit 🤔

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u/Ghorordo Jul 01 '22

Run. Now.

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u/Brilliant_Buy6052 Jul 01 '22

🚩 🚩🚩

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u/HWGA_Exandria Jul 01 '22

The CCP would like to know her location to attempt to recover this oversized red flag...

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u/JMLobo83 Jul 01 '22

She seems nice.

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u/Roadgoddess Jul 01 '22

And easy to deal with as well. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

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u/XoXSmotpokerXoX Jul 01 '22

so you are telling me she is single

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u/HeyimJohnny21 Jul 01 '22

And level headed

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u/23mateo16 Jul 01 '22

Great manners !

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u/PanchoPanoch Jul 01 '22

She said the magic word

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u/tacticaldaddy Jul 01 '22

Run far, run fast, run hard......change cell phone number and address.

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u/_AManHasNoName_ Jul 01 '22

This^ Best to avoid drama and lunacy in your life.

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u/puhtoinen Jul 01 '22

She doesn't seem crazy, a crazy person would act crazy all the time. This seems like a mental episode, sort of like a really, really bad panic attack. If she's not normally like this, get her help, it'll go away with time.

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u/drinkgreenteaevryday Jul 01 '22

Yeah, it's attachment disorder. Ever seen videos on Reddit about terrible and neglectful parents? Often you read comments about how awful it must be for their kids to be raised by them.

Never forget that those kids at some point might show up on a video here, now and in the future.

If you felt bad for them then you should show compassion now, too. Childhood trauma is a long and stoney path to walk and everyone's help is needed if you ever want a healthy society.

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u/orrk256 Jul 02 '22

All trauma is a long, rocky road to walk down, but it is not your job to do it for them, don't try and fix people, they need to work through it themselves.

It is not healthy to be a crutch for other people, not for you, not for them!

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u/AnnaBortion269 Jul 01 '22

Yeah I kinda feel bad for her tbh... She seems distraught over the end of a relationship, we've all been there.. People do insane shit when they're in love.

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u/Ando-FB Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Agreed. On the surface this seems crazy but this is what every person who has experienced heartbreak feels on the inside it’s just most people can get a grip on their emotions and have enough control and rationality to not act like this.

I feel for her. It’s really sad and she is having a severe mental breakdown and is experiencing so much pain in this moment. Then again we don’t know her and what led to this breakup and her previous behaviour.

The ex bf may or may not be a massive dick for filming and sharing this. Depends on the situation I guess. Either way it’s sad to watch.

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u/luxii4 Jul 01 '22

I remember Oprah saying that in her 20s she did a bunch of this shit. She remembered running after a dude’s car begging him to come back. She had a really fucked up childhood so she was desperate for love. She worked a lot on herself and can look at it in the past. Not sure how often this girl does this but you can move on from this and from this dude.

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u/Bearlypainting Jul 01 '22

I would assume given his calm attitude towards the outburst and having the foresight to film it but also deny hes filming it because of her volatile reactions ( see the last seconds of the video )

That these kinds of outbursts are either common or predictable enough that he anticipated that this was a likely outcome

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u/Ando-FB Jul 01 '22

You have a good point. We don’t know the full story but he might be filming this interaction to save his own ass at a later date. Either way it’s uncomfortable to watch.

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u/Griff_Suriaj Jul 01 '22

Could have recorded w/o posting.

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u/PanchoPanoch Jul 01 '22

If that was the case, why post it that publicly

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u/sukhumvit71 Jul 01 '22

However “crazy” she is, you have to be an absolute piece of shit to post this online. I mean the dude must have loved her at some point. She was once his closest person, presumably. Shit goes south and now you want to wreck her? Fuck that noise.

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u/plsnobanerinomods Jul 01 '22

ya shes not destroying his shit or threatening why is this funny and why recorded? dudes a weirdo she needs to stay away jesus

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u/Ah_Um Jul 01 '22

This right here. I feel really bad for this person. This is someone going through a really severe panic attack who likely doesn't get them frequently and doesn't know how to handle the intense spiral of emotions going on inside their head. This girl needs a Xanax and a few therapy sessions and she'll prob be fine.

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u/zuk1200 Jul 01 '22

Sorry to say but it won't go away with time. I've been there and actually had to move out of state just to get away from a woman that acted this way. And I'm here to tell you some 40 years later she is still the same if she gets a chance to be around me. Some 40 years later if I come to visit family they have to keep it a secret if Im in town.

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u/BecalMerill Jul 01 '22

Tammi can be fun for the occasional bender.

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u/komnenos Jul 01 '22

I'm so sorry to hear that.

Had a buddy in middle school like this. He dated a cute girl for all of five months, she broke up with him at the end of 8th grade. Friend and I occasionally hung out but lost touch after we went to college. I thought he had moved on, hell he'd had several girlfriends in high school.

Met his middle school ex by chance very recently and she told me that he's been STALKING HER since 9th grade. The three of us are all 30. I've had heartbreak and often given in to wondering what an ex is doing but Jesus Christ I just can't understand STALKING someone, let alone stalking someone more or less since since you sexually came of age.

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u/SwordfishCyclones Jul 01 '22

This.

I'm glad this sub is starting to see the difference between an awful person and someone having a genuine panic episode.

Whatever the cause may be, it's shitty to post genuine episodes condensed to a minute and comment judgements away.

Public shaming is reserved for the truly terrible people.

Whenever a camera is rolling, all the parties including the cameraman want something. It's important to ask if the cameraman was right/wrong.

With so little context, and this woman clearly having an episode, I'm inclined to believe the cameraman shared for public shaming.

When you feel something not right in your stomach watching a freakout, chances are it's an episode that EVERYONE is capable of having. I say this so if there's a day I'm at the end of my rope, someone doesn't find I said unkind words when they film my episode.

No one should have their episode of mental exhaustion exacerbated by a cell phone. Much less, I hope other folks become more aware of it as awareness to mental health comes into focus.

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u/LorealTheGreat Jul 01 '22 Wholesome

You know what would make this situation better? A baby !

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u/Independent_Ice_4299 Jul 01 '22 Helpful Bravo Grande!

Nah the airbag going off

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u/scolin88 Jul 01 '22

Underrated comment.

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u/sourceshrek Jul 01 '22

She already is a baby, as an adult. You’ve got a 2 in 1.

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u/Liveymcc Jul 01 '22

This is sad.

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u/icarus6sixty6 Jul 01 '22

Agreed. I don’t understand the circumstances in the vid but being dumped sucks regardless. I’ve definitely had my cry fits, although I saved them for when I got home and could be alone. :(

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u/BlackTrans-Proud Jul 01 '22

From my own experience the more appropriate emotion is fear.

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u/TheUn5een Jul 01 '22

No backward crabwalk down stairs, no pea soup vomit… I’ve seen better. 5/10

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u/Madhat84 Jul 01 '22

Posting it online probably magnifies the danger

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u/datboiofculture Jul 01 '22

I am not in danger Skyler.

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u/IamLeoKim Jul 01 '22

Maybe there was a reason why he became ex.

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u/Tomomori79 Jul 01 '22 All-Seeing Upvote

One could look at this like she's crazy but you never know who the guy was. He could have been a complete narcissist and manipulated her into feeling like she couldn't live without him. I've experienced things similar. And we don't know what she's going through in her life on top of that. I'm only saying this out of experience and the fact that he's filming her and publicly shaming her by posting it online.

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u/Glittering_Let_5846 Jul 01 '22 Silver

I get a bad vibe from Walter. He seems to be enjoying this. And if he was any sort of decent human being he wouldn’t have posted this.

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u/drkrtmstrs Jul 01 '22

Recording at a time like that and posting on the internet is pretty scummy and weird.

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u/Canadianingermany Jul 01 '22

The recording is not the issue.

Posting it online on the other hand.

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u/Crafty-Amount7125 Jul 01 '22

Could you imagine having your heart broken and then that person recording your agony? It's disgusting.

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u/Dread_Algernon Jul 01 '22

Na, I could totally see recording it for self protection. Posting was definitely a scummy move if this was the worst of what she did though. Wouldn't be surprised if they're both narcissists.

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u/ilovegingermen Jul 01 '22

She is very clearly having an extremely intense panic attack. Fuck this dude

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u/Bored_to_Death_81 Jul 01 '22

Yeah this is disturbing

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u/nudiecale Jul 01 '22

I don’t think recording it by itself is an indicator that he’s scummy. I’ve seen plenty of videos where guys avoided arrest because they had video proving their chick was freaking out and they didn’t do a thing.

But if he’s the one that publicly posted it, that’s pretty fucking scummy. With the exception that If she was going around trashing his reputation and he posted it show everybody what he’s had to deal with. Like “see, this is what she does. It’s not me.”

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u/Fight_kat102 Jul 01 '22

He's the one who knocks

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u/ITfactotum Jul 01 '22

I was thinking the same thing.
This happening is bad for both of them. Love does things like this to people when its over and one sided. Taking the video could be understood if he believes she could do something stupid, hurt herself or others and he may need evidence to protect himself.

Posting it online, that shows a whole different level of fucked. That's an extreme lack of empathy for others that's the sign of a sociopath. (I believe, right?)

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u/boyuber Jul 01 '22

I get a bad vibe from Walter. He seems to be enjoying this. And if he was any sort of decent human being he wouldn’t have posted this.

Either that or she has a tendency to get violent/destructive, or accuse him of abuse, and he knows he needs to protect himself by recording the interaction.

Him posting it definitely supports your position, but you never know with some people.

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u/posh_hawk Jul 01 '22

This. I have been in a narcissistically abusive relationship where I ended up having a psychotic break from the gaslighting and exploded with reactive abuse.

She recorded me having an episode, after provoking me into hysterics, then recorded me and showed all our coworkers.

It’s easy to say she is cRazY or whatever, but 1 in 100 people has a cluster B personality disorder so it is highly likely that she might be a victim herself.

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u/fumoking Jul 01 '22

I remember pacing my apartment hyperventilating because my 2 time ex blew me off on her birthday to go on a date with another guy making her my 3 time ex. Absolutely the calm collected person in this situation could just as easily, if not usually, be the abusive partner and we're seeing the end result of abuse which is emotional instability.

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u/whtdaheo Jul 01 '22

i have been in this relationship. the provoking to hysterics then laughing at the reaction is unbearable. im not blaming either side as the video doesn’t provide much context, but i am not quick to think the girl is just crazy.

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u/idancer88 Jul 01 '22

That was literally my first thought. I was abused by a narcissist in my last relationship and the discard phase of their abuse is unbelievably difficult to navigate. He deliberately tried to trigger a mental breakdown in me despite it being his choice to leave and he almost succeeded. He emotionally abused me terribly in the relationship but also in the break up, as well as conducting a smear campaign against me which was 100% projection of everything that he did to me. And when I finally stood up for myself and got angry because I couldn't take the abuse or the lies anymore, he used it as "evidence" to "prove" I am "crazy".

Of course I can't say this is what is happening here but I completely understand the stress and anxiety of a bad break up and this is essentially a behavioural manifestation of what was going on inside me. Thankfully I had the support network and absense of mental health issues (except for depression and anxiety that he caused) to protect me from doing this. Unless she is an abuser, I feel bad for her and hope she's OK.

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u/fumoking Jul 01 '22

A manipulator recording his victims pain to further isolate and control her knowing that the internet does not want to care about a woman's pain? Nah must be another crazy bitch amiright guys?!

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u/Introverts_United Jul 01 '22

True. He could have gas lit her. 🔥

For some reason get toxic vibes from both of them for some reason. Her antics and him filming and not saying much. Something is up. 🕵🏾

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u/Ok-Eagle6903 Jul 01 '22

Very well said

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u/Idlertwo Jul 01 '22

Yeah this is a video I feel we didnt have any business seeing. There is no context here besides a woman having a emotional breakdown. Peoples mental suffering should not be our entertainment.

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u/blahmeistah Jul 01 '22

Yes it is. I don’t know anything about their history but she clearly needs help, this is not helping.

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u/FKN_LAIRY Jul 01 '22

It is, dunno why this guy would record and post this, it's sad and very weird of him.

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u/RunningJay Jul 01 '22

Yeah, I felt bad watching this. Why would someone post it on the internet.

Poor girl. I know nothing of the backstory but at least from what I saw she doesn't deserve one of her most vulnerable moments broadcast over the internet.

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u/fumoking Jul 01 '22

I can definitely say that if my worst most insecure moment over an ex was recorded I would not look good. I think the dude looks just as childish as she does for recording and posting it just that his immaturity isn't coming across the same since recording people going nuts is normal. You don't do this to people you have ever really cared about imo

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u/DragonWhiskers1 Jul 01 '22

Yeah it reminds me of how codependent I was to my Narcissist, they really get in your head and make you feel like you can’t live without them, poor girl I hope she’s moved on and he’s moved on as well.

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u/Doubtindoh Jul 01 '22

Why would he film this and share with ppl on the internet smh

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u/budlightboi Jul 01 '22

She's got a cheetah print tattoo. I already know that chick is nuts

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u/HardToImpress Jul 01 '22

Face tattoo gave it away for me.

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u/budlightboi Jul 01 '22

Yeah I mean tbh I'm covered in tattoos but will never understand some people's decision making when it comes to what they have for the rest of their lives. Those can close a lot of doors for you career wise. But to each their own I guess

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u/fractalfocuser Jul 01 '22

One of my fav insta profiles is called jobstoppers. Dude photographs people with face tats in a really artsy b&w style. Theyre really incredible tats but it shows the commitment because you are removing yourself from any chance at a "professional" career

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u/def-jam Jul 01 '22

I was 50/50 with cheetah print, then I saw the neck tattoo.

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u/Myname1sntCool Jul 01 '22

To be fair, I’ll bet the sex is amazing.

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u/Hank_of_the_Hill93 Jul 01 '22

Shoulder says "cheetah" but her talons say "chicken." She is, perhaps, a griffin.

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u/fecknutts Jul 01 '22

Waiting for the airbag to go off...disappointed. PLEASE TAKE ME, AIRBAG!!! PLEASE!!! PLEASE!!! PLLEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAASE!!!

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u/proteannomore Jul 01 '22

Please… tell me where I left my meds.

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u/SnuffleWumpkins Jul 01 '22

Yeah that’s not how airbags work.

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u/nightlyraver Jul 01 '22

Don't do it, Walter! Run!

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u/EmptyHelicopter1833 Jul 01 '22

good ole wallie must have that fire cock to have her acting so crazy

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u/theRealPeTeTe809 Jul 01 '22 Helpful

They call him wally sweet tip.

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u/I_AM_EVOL Jul 01 '22

I don't know why but this made me laugh 😅

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u/Complete_Fox733 Jul 01 '22

One week later she’s gonna post an Instagram of her with another dude, with some dumb caption like

“Better without him”

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u/VolvoFlexer Jul 01 '22 All-Seeing Upvote

Probably add another tattoo, of an anchor with the text "never sink"

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u/DillardDonger Jul 01 '22

Felt that one

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u/Adventurous_Focus377 Jul 01 '22

She already did lol

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u/Cetun Jul 01 '22

That or after a me too wave she's going to have a story about how her ex was "emotionally manipulative and abusive" because he broke up with her.

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u/campionmusic51 Jul 01 '22 Silver Helpful Wholesome Faith In Humanity Restored

this is just none of our business. this is a person at their absolute lowest. whether or not she needs help is also none of our business. i stopped watching as soon as i realised what i was seeing. think about your rock bottom: can you imagine the internet deriding you in the comments, after they’ve entertained themselves sufficiently watching it happen? no—you probably can’t.

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u/Cream_93 Jul 01 '22

Really pleased I saw this level headed take.

I had one of these the other day. Granted it was about something a little more serious and not directed at anyone, but if someone with a camera was around to film it, I would have looked like a lunatic.

Bottom is not fun. Not for the person experincing it and really should be for the people viewing it.

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u/Bun_Bunz Jul 01 '22

I had a shitty day at the end of a shitty week in a shitty month.

Chick-fil-A gave me an Arnold palmer when I asked for half sweet/ half unsweetened and I fucking lost it.

I went into my work conference room, climbed under the table and had a tantrum and huge cry just like this. I would be pissed if someone recorded that but then also posted it online. I was in the middle of a crisis.

Did empathy run off with common sense?

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u/aggravated-asphalt Jul 01 '22

Yes it did. This girl is having a breakdown and instead of leaving, this guy is recording her like he’s having a good time. There’s no violence towards him so there’s no reason to record “for self defense.” She may not be in the right for putting this stress on him but that doesn’t excuse him taking the video and going one step further by posting it online. I genuinely feel bad for her because we all have our rock bottom moments and don’t deserve the further anguish of the entire world seeing it. Jesus Christ.

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u/oscarmills1 Jul 01 '22

Only sensible comment. We've all done stupid shit that out of context might make us seem like the craziest person but those moments shouldn't define us. This video shouldn't have been posted online

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u/aspiringgrandpa Jul 01 '22

it was fucking heartbreaking to watch. i’ve been the “crazy” girl in these situations and while my reaction did have a lot to do with my mental illnesses i struggled with, my partner at the time verbally and emotionally abused me, making me believe i was the ugliest person around who wasn’t worth love. i thought he was the only person who could ever love me so of course i broke down. there’s no way of telling what’s actually going on here, but what i do know is that recording someone you used to love at one of their lowest moments and posting it online is absolutely disgusting. this girl needs help, there’s no denying that, but the amount of people assuming she’s gonna hit him, or falsely accuse him of something, it’s gross.

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u/memenuel Jul 01 '22

Thank you for putting it to words

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u/VanderHoo Jul 01 '22

Agreed. I came in expecting some smashing of windows, some B&E, the usual psycho ex stuff. This one isn't entertainment, it's just emotional suffering on video. Most people have felt this low before for some reason or another, and I'd assume most wouldn't want video of it on r/publicfreakout

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u/thisiselio Jul 01 '22

Finally someone, i really thought no one wrote a comment like this. I think we guys are the only one caring here. Maybe its just me but i went through the same state of frustration and sadness and it just feels so bad that i get so angry of the comments like "She's got a cheetah print tattoo. I already know that chick is nuts". Like no one knows what happened before, maybe she treated him so good but he ended up dumping her. Even if she were the one that made mistakes its so disgusting to post that on Instagram. I hope she gets over him and gets happy again.

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u/MopitWithaMuppet Jul 01 '22

This comment should be at the top. Three seconds in and I was looking to see how far down it was and I'm deeply disappointed in everything above. The situation between the two of them is none of our business. If someone filmed me in the anguish of heartbreak it would be every bit as embarrassing. Anyone who says that a similar video of them would not be embarrassing is either lying, hasn't ever felt true heartbreak, or is, in some way, lacking emotional depth.

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u/0OOO00000OO00O0O0OOO Jul 01 '22

Stopped as well. This was desperation. Shouldn't have been posted online. However I understand the guy recording perhaps to protect himself from future accusations. Some persons with mental breakdowns like that can shift from wanting him to try to destroy him when they realized they lost. So its in his best interests. But it shouldn't be online.

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u/campionmusic51 Jul 01 '22

except you just said it: why is it online? because the person recording is a callous piece of shit.

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u/IntoTheWildLife Jul 01 '22

I remember having a similar mental breakdown when my abusive ex got way too much and I couldn’t figure out what I was supposed to do any more? Like I loved him so much but I knew I couldn’t survive in the relationship any more. I went to the hospital though and was kept under supervision by a mental health team until I calmed down. I remember the fear of going back home to him!

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u/Azerd01 Jul 01 '22

Agreed. Its just sad. Hope anyone taking pleasure in seeing this looks inward and figures out why.

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u/RandomInternetGuy12 Jul 01 '22

Yeah real talk this girl needs help, not to have her turmoil farmed for karma.

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u/rcwilli1 Jul 01 '22

In Germany you can get up to two years in prison for this. I fully agree with you

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u/Ohhiitsmeyagirl Jul 01 '22

Yes. Thank you. People love the cancel culture but we have all done embarrassing, bad, and sad things. I heard an older person once say “thank God they didn’t have camera phones in my day” and that is so true. You’re whole life is magnified for everyone to judge you while they’re doing probably worse things. Smh.

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u/farqueue2 Jul 01 '22

How about the guy recording it and sharing it.

Absolute piece of shit

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u/chucklikespizza Jul 01 '22

Exactly this. This isn’t a “Public Freakout”. This is a private moment of extreme desperation and vulnerability made public. This shit wasn’t for our eyes.

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u/spidah84 Jul 01 '22

Literally like a 3yr old in a carseat. Interesting study, thank you.

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u/Introverts_United Jul 01 '22

It really does look like it. I hope I never freak out like that in public.😅

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u/GordonBombay102 Jul 01 '22

I get recording this in case she breaks bad and tries to accuse him of SA or hitting her or something, but it's just a dick move to put it out for everyone to watch. Nobody needs to see this shit.

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u/tomatoketchupandbeer Jul 01 '22

Yeah I kind of hate that about the internet now, people film others at their lowest and post it online to get some meaningless likes or karma points for validation

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u/carousel111 Jul 01 '22

Yes it’s disturbing tbh, and it could happen to anyone

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u/vholera Jul 01 '22

Came here to say this. I didnt even watch half of it because of she sheer pettiness of it all.

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u/Rabbitsatemycheese Jul 01 '22

Agreed. Shes cleqrly going through some tough shit. Probably right for him to leave but adding insult to injury by posting it online just shows a lack of class.

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u/One_Sport_4195 Jul 01 '22

this is horrible

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u/SamusSapphire Jul 01 '22

Poor girl definitely needs help calming down then maybe some therapy, I feel bad for her

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u/Majestic_Lemon3735 Jul 01 '22

Sad and uncomfortable to watch. If you enjoy watching this I would be worried about your personality

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u/My_everything_hurts_ Jul 01 '22

honestly fucked its even recorded, like geez no one wants to see that

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u/0OOO00000OO00O0O0OOO Jul 01 '22

The judges might want to see it incase her desperation turns in to hate and accusation start raining over him. Video evidence is the only protection a guy have in scenarios like this. Like Amber said to Depp: "You are a man, nobody is going to believe you" (or similar)

But it should not have been posted online.

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u/Lu_breezy Jul 01 '22

Yo this girl really needs some help

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u/fulcanelli63 Jul 01 '22

Wish someone cared that much about me NGL 😂

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u/Jackman1211 Jul 01 '22

It's possible that she really is just super in love with him or whatever. But I think with a reaction like this it might be the case there might be more at stake. For instance, what if she doesn't have any money and he lets her live with him, so if he doesn't take her back she would become homeless or have to move back in with abusive parents or something. I think a situation like that would make this kind of response a bit more understandable.

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u/Wolfdude91 Jul 01 '22

I’ve a feeling she only cares when it benefits her

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u/nicodemus86 Jul 01 '22

she is codependent and prob cant handle being rejected

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u/Kaloozrs Jul 01 '22

Sad to see tbh.

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u/johnny_51ma Jul 01 '22

I mean, I get filming this for personal documentation, but it seems kind of cruel to post this online.

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u/JoergenFS Jul 01 '22

I came here to say this, why even film it in the first place… r/iamatotalpieceofshit

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u/ThisYogurtcloset3315 Jul 01 '22

Dang i hate such long nail extensions.

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u/knoguera Jul 01 '22

This is sad actually and why would he post it. She’s prob nuts but still it’s hard to watch someone in that much distress.

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u/DomedHat Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Sadly, I’ve been involved in similar situations with an ex, so I’m speaking from experience. She needs mental assistance and you, sir, are a douchebag for filming her, goading her, and posting.

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u/Chris_Schneider Jul 01 '22

If my friends weren't there to talk me through my emotions, I would've begged for my ex to stay with me when they told me they cheated "to get it off their chest". Was in the middle of finals, so repressed the emotions. Honestly took a year to come to terms with and that they didn't actively try to hurt me, but just didn't think about others when saying or doing shit. If I could've let it out like that, it definitely would've happened, but it just accumulated into countless panic attacks whenever I saw them. Mental health is a b, and makes breakups so much worse - now diagnosed with Bipolar, taking meds and doing much better

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u/My_everything_hurts_ Jul 01 '22

yeah yeah crazy, dramatic, whatever but this is just sad, not for the woman but for the man also just recording, idk maybe its just me but nothing and no one in this video seems to really be in the morally high ground

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u/Deep_Deer353 Jul 01 '22

Agreed to record someone who you once (most likely recently in this case) had a close relationship with, going through a mental breakdown is low. Then to post it to social media…zero morals, zero empathy. Cut her off and maybe try to get her help if it’s viable. Don’t degrade her more than she’s already degrading herself

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u/MikjallOfHargreaves Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Memes aside, it's fucking tragic that she's going through that...

... To get to that stage of desperation, The inside of her head must be chaos.

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u/miss_t_winter Jul 01 '22

His dick can't be that good. No dick is worth making a complete fool out of yourself.

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u/Abby-Someone1 Jul 01 '22

That cannot be truly judged unless the sample size of the data set is... vast.

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u/IHateEditedBgMusic Jul 01 '22

This guy fucks sluts

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u/UnleashThePwnies Jul 01 '22

He liked doing the dishes and always knew where to go out to eat without spending an hour picking.

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u/NecramoniumZero Jul 01 '22

As Eddie Murphy once said, "make them go OOOOHOOOHH!"

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u/u_e_s_i Jul 01 '22

What did she say like 16 seconds from the end of the video? “I wanna feel your ____”

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u/Quad150db Jul 01 '22

Damn watched this expecting a laugh but this was heartbreaking to watch.

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u/diaryofsnow Jul 01 '22

Why even post it tho?

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u/Exodys03 Jul 01 '22

I’m not sure which is more disturbing. Her reaction or this dude’s recording it and posting it for the world’s amusement.

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u/timwongkg Jul 01 '22

Damn this dude must have the good D

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '22

People who post these videos are cringe.

Comments are like, "what if he needs the footage to prove what happened."

Uhhhh isn't that Instagram?!

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u/groovy604 Jul 01 '22

This is what mental health issues look like. This human needs help.

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u/bk27465 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Yeah she's a bit loony but this is why i hate this era. She is having a mental break down and this mofo is filming and posting it on the internet.

Like what are you proud of??

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u/SBDinthebackground Jul 01 '22

That's hard to watch.

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u/TazzyUK Jul 01 '22

Regardless of the facets of their 'relationship', no bf (or ex bf), friend or anyone should post this online for all too see and remain possibly indefinitely. This alone makes them a complete scumbag in my book. Very sad

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u/Only_Fantastic Jul 01 '22

This probably shouldn't be shared. It's not very nice.

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u/Alternative_Mention2 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Pretty shit to be posting this online. Fkn asshole.

What’s nearly as bad is some of the comments. I know it’s stating the obvious, but gee there’s a lot of fuckheads on Reddit.

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u/En_Bullfrog Jul 01 '22

The man is a bit of a scumbag tbh. She's obviously going through a tough time and he's filming it and putting it online for all to see.

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u/SgtSiggy Jul 01 '22

This is how someone behaves when they almost always get what they want. Yikes

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u/SomeDumbOne Jul 01 '22

You forgot "and someone finally tells them no."

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u/Slippoo Jul 01 '22

I feel bad for her

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u/TangLord87 Jul 01 '22

Straight up tho. This is some pretty toxic behaviour from the guy too. Recording someone like this is just rough. To think he once had an ounce of admiration for this person and now has zero empathy to her in this state is pretty sad. In saying that, bitches do be crazy.

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u/H8E5H8 Jul 01 '22

That’s sad. Nothing funny about a person’s mental anguish. Crazy or not she’s hurting.

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u/Squidank Jul 01 '22

Why was dude filming tho cmon like that ain’t cool if she actually going through some shit

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u/long-shlong-badong Jul 01 '22

Then why post it online for millions if not billions to see?

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u/SheepskinSour Jul 01 '22

Damn, she’s definitely going through something there. Don’t know the context for why this fella left her, but filming her in such a state is pretty tight. I’ve had minor versions of what she’s going through there, it’s emotional hysteria and your brain won’t stop cycling the same couple thoughts.

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u/BriefClaim6072 Jul 01 '22

What kind of asshole publicly shames someone for their mental illness. She clearly has some issues, but posting it is gross.

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u/Panda-Cubby Jul 01 '22

Please take her keys away from her. Please please, please.

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u/AeralAeros Jul 01 '22

This is sad....

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u/Immediate-Pea-3323 Jul 01 '22

Human emotions are tricky and complex! I'm sure a few days later she was composed and realized he was the dickhead in this relationship!

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u/Duhmmee21 Jul 01 '22

She doesn't need him, she needs a therapist.

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u/Vistian Jul 02 '22

This is sad and, without context, is pretty fucked to post. If you've ever had a bad breakup, this isn't altogether THAT crazy of a reaction.

We don't need to see this.

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u/Familiar-Tea-1428 Jul 01 '22

This is an insult to legit mental breakdowns. This is a grown adult-child throwing a tantrum for attention. Nothing more.

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u/Goomancy Jul 01 '22

Douchebag for recording. I can sympathize with her anguish but I’ll admit she needs a little more restraint.

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u/itsEndz Jul 01 '22

With how cool he seems about it, she's probably better off with someone who reacts like her stress matters.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '22

Y people record this shit, like ALL of us haven't been here foh

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u/wut_91 Jul 01 '22 edited Jul 01 '22

Nah, recording interactions (especially disputes) during bad breakups can be is vital. Anyone can just make shit up about this or that happening.

However, posting said recordings onto social media for a reason other than clearing your name/setting the record straight is pretty shitty.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '22

That's what I meant about posting it for no reason. and here come reddits inquisitors with their masters of internet psychology intellect. Thanks for the mature response

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u/ShooterLikeScoby Jul 01 '22

Nah. Toddler-esque tantrums and Amber Heard tears. Save yourself Walter.

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u/cityofninegates Jul 01 '22

I don’t care what is wrong with this relationship. I don’t know what she is like or what else is going on in her life but a he is obviously very distraught

This guy is a real douche for filming and posting this. You should never do this to anyone you ever had feelings for.

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u/Aliensmithard Jul 01 '22

I used to be a nanny and this is giving strong "I WANT THAT TOY NOW" in a grocery store vibes

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u/Ingrown_inkling Jul 01 '22

BPD is a hell of a drug

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u/PulledToBits Jul 01 '22

Why would someone film this and put it online. This is sad all around. Cameraman is a douche. Many many humans have breakdowns like this, esp at these ages. Showing someone to the world in their worst and most difficult moments, is some sad sort of sadistic act. This is not what the internet should be for.

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u/cloudydreams74 Jul 01 '22

Sooooo he didn’t want her before and she thought throwing a fit and begging would get him back? But she’s young and hopefully she’ll learn that when you move on and ignore them, then they come running back. And nobody that causes you that much pain is worth having in your life anyways. I hope she’s better now.

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u/Curses1984 Jul 01 '22

Neckbeards: “I’d treat her with respect! They always go for assholes!” “Don’t cry m’lady. Allow me to cover your puddle of tears with my coat so you don’t step in it with those sexy feet of yours!”

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u/UltimateAnemone Jul 01 '22

Not blaming him, but I bet there was some gas lighting beforehand. He’s also perpetuating it by standing there, when he should just walk away.

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u/EkoFoxx Jul 01 '22

Or filming to capture potential evidence of assault/abuse. Although I agree, posting this for the world to see is classless.

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u/phillyb4b4 Jul 01 '22

She never outgrew temper tantrums!!

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u/gdmfsobtc Jul 01 '22

Take her back to where you found her, quickly.

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u/bigsampsonite Jul 01 '22

LOLS Was I not suppose to laugh?

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u/shinywhale1 Jul 01 '22

Yeah this is just sad. It's always wild to see attractive people have breakdowns like this over a breakup. Like, dawg, you're three tinder swipes away from a rebound you just have to not be crazy. What is you doin?

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u/That0n36uy Jul 01 '22

You can see the pause in her insanity when she receives a text.

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u/Prietocratico Jul 01 '22

Why the fuck he still there, waiting for a psychotic attack or some, damn

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u/Unlikely_Cockroach26 Jul 01 '22

My girl when I gotta leave after we spent a whole week together

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u/BigResponsibility649 Jul 01 '22

She would be a mad root ngl

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u/asportate Jul 01 '22

1 of 2 things.

She's a wacko toxic bitch

He's a narcissistic asshole who drove her to this point .

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u/Henson_Disney48 Jul 01 '22

All I could think of watching this video was whether she was a Star Trek fan? Her shoulder tattoos look like the Dax Symbiote pattern from DS9.

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u/Official_Griffin Jul 01 '22

I want to know the story and what happened cause I don’t know to feel sorry for her or not. Like depending on the situation this could be sad or he could be manipulative and posting to embarrass her. Two sides to the story folks

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u/Eternals2021 Jul 01 '22

Codependency is a serious addiction that needs to be addressed in therapy.

That or maybe he's the only one who can give her multiple orgasms shrugs

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u/TraubeMinzeTABAK Jul 01 '22

Not sure if this is public